This may come as a shock but…

…people are not always who we think they are. Expectations and perceptions are interesting (and freaky)concepts we deal with in life. The reality is: a lot of our choices and behaviors are driven by the expectations and perceptions that others have of us. At the same time, our own expectations and perceptions of ourselves and […]

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The Dance

First I have to apologize for not writing my November post. I made a commitment (to myself) to post at least once a month and for those one or two of you waiting with anticipation for each riveting article, I have failed you and myself so forgive me. Ok, time to move on:)…So yesterday Len […]

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You live with HOW MANY people????

As I sit here in the solitude of my darkened bedroom waiting for the effects of the medication to take hold and rid me of the pain of my horrendous  migraine, I can hear the faint bustle and chatter that is a daily part of living in a house with 4 generations. Well, not so […]

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TMI!

T.M.I. – or ” Too Much Information” is sometimes the response that is often heard when someone shares a bit too much of something personal or about an awkward topic. It is something I have been accused of over the years…sharing a little too much – apparently about things others really don’t want to know […]

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Help! I’m talking and I can’t shut up!!!

Have you ever “gone there” verbally when you KNOW you should shut up??? You can tell you are going to vomit verbally any minute and in the back of your mind you KNOW it’s going to get ugly and stink up the place but you just HAVE to say it? HELP! I’m talking and I […]

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I’d like some cheese with my “whine”…

So as I sit here on my bed, listening to the thunder and rain, suffering from a hormonal hangover triggered by last nights 11pm tortilla chips, guac and smores binge I am wondering… WHEN WILL IT END???? WHEN WILL I FINALLY FEEL IN CONTROL???? When will I arrive at that perfect place where I have […]

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Marriage is like a roller-coaster…

Marriage, like life, is like a roller-coaster. Alot of ups and downs, twists and turns, heart stopping drops, exhilarating heights, unexpected surprises, and sometimes you throw up:-)… You can either choose to grip the bar white knuckled, eyes squeezed shut, dreading every moment, making yourself sick and throw up all over each other… OR you […]

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